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OKAY, moving swiftly along. For todayâs âthemeâ, Iâve decided to âdiscussâ a specific debilitating disease thatâs been crossing my path of observation lately. The disease is called: AWLB which stands for â artists and writers with limiting beliefs. âThatâs not a disease! Thatâs just a chick trying to be âcreativeâ and funny, and itâs so, like, FAIL!â you say… I say, it IS a disease because too many talented people suffer from it. And theyâre passing it around like itâs a Sunday family fudge cake, of which everyone at the table want seconds and thirds, whilst sharing the same spoon with the sickest member licking the icing off with lip-smacking glee… Guess how I feel about this disease…
Recently I met the most amazing people, many of whom are artists, designers, illustrators and the like. Theyâre all different, unique, gifted with a touch of the obligatory âweirdnessâ that we creative types are labelled with. Hey, historically, the most gifted creators were all slightly touched by the mad finger that swirls the martini… See what I mean? That whole sentence was odd. Not that Iâm saying Iâm that gifted or even like one of the greats, but, just in case I do go down in history as one of the greats right next to Picasso or Dali or da Vinci â it would be nice to be known for that odd sentence âthe mad finger that swirls the martiniâ…. no wait no maybe not so much… Anyway â letâs get back to the talented people who believe they suck. Thatâs right â they BELIEVE they suck at their talents. This might be you, reading this, right now.
You PILE the pressure on yourself, tear up your sketches, probably chew it and spit it out because ink tastes funny no matter how hard the self-destructing anger is ravaging your veins. Writers delete whole pages if not whole manuscripts in a fit of tormented self-loathing and whacking of keyboards. Cue the days and nights of; âwhy am I even trying? Iâll never get this right. My style is crap. My sketches are poo. Iâll never make money from this. Iâm just not that talented. Check out that guyâs art â Iâll never draw like that! Check this womanâs book, I canât write like that…â
STOP with the limiting torment people! You are gifted with a powerful LANGUAGE of the mind and the most prolific artist and writer you will ever meet: your unconscious mind. You have NO IDEA what you can do once you choose to stop attacking yourself now, and listen to words I am structuring and see what I say… You think that you are consciously drawing that character or writing that action scene. No. Youâre not. All of that is coming from your unconscious mind. Did you know that your unconscious mind is in control of more than 95% of YOU. That includes your mind and body. You donât think so do you? Well, while reading here, do you consciously remind your lungs to breathe in, and out, in, and out? No. Thatâs your unconscious mind doing that. Or, while youâre reading here, are you telling your bladder to not (literally) release? No. Unconscious mind again. Your unconscious mind takes in everything around you. Most of the information it captures â youâre not even aware of consciously â but it goes right into your unconscious mind where itâs sorted into all its necessary folders for later recall or use. Your essence, experiences, feelings and memories â all there. You consciously forget about these files â but the unconscious mind can retrieve what it needs in an instant.
The unconscious mind does not speak. It communicates in symbols. Pictures. Metaphors. You, as artist and writer, hold the key to literally be the âchannelâ in art and writing for your unconscious mind to deliver treasures of thoughts, creations, interpretations, visualizations, patterns, puzzles, premises, stories, wisdom, worlds, new realities, new universes –Â an infinite horizons of creation…
So when you tell yourself âIâm uselessâ, you are placing a massive wall between you, and your unconscious mind. You are closing the tap to a flood of amazing creation. Why would you do that? It seems almost… limiting, does it not? Why would you limit yourself? You do know why though, that answer will pop into your head right now, âwhy do you limit yourself?â Delete the negative reason to why you limit yourself, now, and override it with a positive goal.
And whatâs the rush?! SO many artists have absolutely no patience with their creations… Those characters youâre writing and drawing are YOU! Did you know that? Theyâre little parts of you. Yes, even that disgusting monster skinning a rabbit in the nude â thatâs you. The rabbit too. That came from you, didnât it? You made that. Do you like it when people are impatient with you? No, who would? (unless you have a bizarre impatience fetish…but then youâd be part of a different âdemographicâ of personality, and good luck with that). Yet, youâre impatient with those little parts of you that youâre creating… So should the question be âwhy am I impatient with myself?â Answer that… Hear if itâs really even such a valid reason, then override with a positive goal.
Choose to re-connect to your unconscious mind. Allow it to take control of your hand and draw what it wishes. Let your fingers on the keyboard be the carriers of the images and metaphors your unconscious wants to deliver. Become CONGRUENT with yourself, your talent, your unconscious mind. Draw what you feel! Visualize on paper and onscreen what is inside you (just donât be literal people, no one needs to see whatâs literally âinside youâ okay?).
When you draw without pretence, and write in your true voice â youâll feel FREE. Youâll ENJOY what youâre creating. Youâll become addicted to the process again. And thatâs the key to a successful artist and writer: the PROCESS. Not just the end result. Because the end result is dependent on the PROCESS â which all starts with you, tapping into your unconscious. Speaking in the language of symbols, and writing the pictures of thoughts…
…K, enough from me now…
Go think and prosper!
@JenVinci
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